Step 1: Approaching
When approaching, try to make sure you are facing in the same direction as the woman. Also, it is better to make confident eye contact, by holding your gaze for 3 seconds. Also, don’t for get to smile while making eye contact. Watch her reaction for brushing her hair behind her ear, a smile back, or nervous look away. Then confidently walk toward her from slight angle to appear none threatening. It does not matter, if you have to approach and she is across the room or sitting next to you at the bar. You will look more confident if you have to approach from across the venue or street. We all get nervous or have cold feet, but never let the fear of approaching stop you from approaching a beautiful woman and striking up a conversation or arranging a date anywhere, any place, or at any time. Sometimes you miss read the eye contact or body language. This happens when you are new to the dating scene or have not been out in a while. However, if your first approaches do not work most women will let you down easy but some will reject you hard. It is a numbers game, so do not get mad because it happens to the best of us. Just simply smile, walkaway, and use what work or didn’t for the next approach on a new woman.
Rule of thumb: It takes about 1-3 approaches to start connecting in your home state or town, but it takes about 10-15 approaches to start connecting in different state or country. So the quicker you get those practice approaches out the way the sooner you will start connecting with beautiful women. The reason it takes a few practice approaches is to get over your anxiety or nervousness of talking to women. Women are very good at reading and pick up on social subtleties consciously and unconsciously. Also, there is a learning curve to find the sweet spot for connecting with women. In new state or culture, it sometimes require getting use to the different environment or getting over culture shock.
(Note: Use good judgment because if she is married or in committed relationship with her boyfriend then she is spoken for. However, this should not stop you from approaching. She will let you know if she is already taken or you can ask if you are not sure. Be advised, some women will say they have a boyfriend to let guys down that she not interested in easy.)
Step 2: Closing
After your approach, you will be able to gage how attracted she is to you based on her body language and words. This will let you know what kind of close you can do. If you hit it off from the bat, in terms of the physical and emotional chemistry, you can sleep together that night. However, if you approach and she is only sexual attracted, but does not see you two having the potential for long-term relationship, she may only make out with you that night and give you a fake number. If you approach she could be with her friends or have to work tomorrow morning, but available to meet up latter to continue the interaction, so you two exchange numbers for a date.
Step 3) Logistics
After the closing, the last step is too continually mange logistics and expectations of the relationship or interactions. Now that you have closed and have already hooked up, almost hooked up, or arrange for future date, it is time to move on to handling future dates and logistical meet ups. You cannot get nervous over the phone or use the excuse “I don’t know what to say”. Keep it simple. It is easier for the both of you to progress the interaction, if you are self-confident and self-assured and not nervous and unassured.
A self-confident man will let the woman know he is interested in her. His first text, phone call, or conversation will be long the line of “I am interested in your personality, more than just your looks”. Here is an example of a text message to send.
“Been Thinking about you all day”
“Can’t wait to see
you again”
“Let’s get together for
drinks soon”
Note: You can send it one line at a time and wait on reply. Or, keep it simple and send all three lines at once, if you are pressed for time.
Most of your conversations and interactions will be along these lines. These lines will keep you out of saying the wrong thing that could damage the interaction or worrying about running out of things to say.
Final Note: keep options open until you are in committed relationship. This means not going after one woman but consistently working multiple women and leads. This keeps your value high and rising like at an auction, and more woman will bid and compete to win your affection.
Childhood
Dan Brandon Bilzerian commonly known as “Blitz” in gambling and social media circles is a native Armenian who resides in the US. Born of Terri Steffen and Paul Bilzerian an Armenian immigrant who flee the Armenian Genocide to resettle in the United States of America.
At a tender age, his father was convicted of fraud and jailed. It is believed this was the beginning of Dan’s contempt for authority that has plagued his controversial life to date.
Gambling
Adam Bilzerian, Dan's brother, taught him his beginner poker techniques as a 20-year-old University of Florida student. He did not have a knack for poker as a beginner and by the second year of study he went broke. Since he was unable to access his trust fund, he sold his gun collection to fund his comeback. In no time, he was ‘making it rain,' and in 2009 he joined World Series of Poker Event where he emerged 180th.
He promptly shifted focus to private cash games with Hollywood celebrities like Mark Wahlberg, Floyd Mayweather, Steve Aoki. He is recognized for his reckless and intuitive style of play that sees him splash a lot of cash on game tables on a regular basis. He alleged to have a payday of around $10.8 million in a solo night of poker.
His 8 million Instagram followers are unprecedented by all measures. The reach he has on the social media platform enables him to reach people of all ages. Therefore, playboy lifestyle characterized by heavy drug use and nudity he portrays to his Instagram followers has diverged opinions on his lifestyle.
Scandals
However, the opinions matter less to Dan Bilzerian. Dan Bilzerian history and lifestyle courts controversies and scandals on every turn. At only 19 years, he was discharged from the military has not finished his training for a Navy Seal Program. It is claimed that he did not graduate because of violating safety measures at the shooting range.
In 2005, he was rushed to the hospital after overdosing on Viagra and cocaine on a five-day partying spree. Utterly surprising, he suffered a second cardiac arrest twelve hours later. Usually lucky as in his poker adventures, Dan Bilzerian survived double heart-attack and was up and moving after a fortnight.
In 2014, Dan Bilzerian was barred from a nightclub in Miami for allegedly kicking Vanessa Castano on the face. The model sued Bilzerian and demanded $1 million to settle.
Rationale
The grandness portrayed by Dan Bilzerian is a classic cry for attention from friends and family. The opulence depicted in sleeping over a pool of strippers, over-drugging, and penchant for material things is an indicator Dan “Blitz” Bilzerian has a huge void that is yearning to be filled with love and care. However, some may argue he is merely enjoying the ‘fruits’ of his labor. Be the judge.
The history of Hugh Hefner starts back on April 9, 1926, when he was born in Chicago Illinois. He was the elder son of Grace and Glenn Hefner. Hefner has also served in the US army for two years. He went to Chicago Art Institute, and later joined Urbana-Champaign where he majored in Psychology. Afterward, Hefner went back to school for more studies on sociology. He received his bachelor degree in 1949 and the same year he married Mildred Williams. However, he engaged in other three marriages in his life.
Work History
In the early 1950s, Hefner secured a job with Esquire magazine. He later decides to quit from the publication, when denied a $5 raise in his salary. Hefner is the man behind transforming the adult entertainment industry with the edition of the Playboy magazine. To launch the magazine, he raised $85, 000 from investors, and $2000 from his family. The trademark Playboy was suggested to him by a colleague at college. And this was the start of the revolution of sexual life for many of the adults in the US and beyond. His first work feature Marilyn Monroe back in 1953 and his Playboy Company expanded into a multimillion-dollar business. With him operating such a huge company, in his 1970’s he was able to set himself a Playboy Mansion. The mansion locates in the west of California, and by this time, he was the remaining chief editor of the magazine by this time. He also started The Girl Next Door, a TV series a favorite play many viewers.
Awards
The history of Hugh Hefner incorporates numerous awards for his great works. Hefner induction into the Hall of Fame of the American Society of Magazine editors is one of his greatest achievements. He also received the “Henry Johnson Fisher Award.”
His Death
On September 27, 2017, Hefner died at his home the Playboy Manson. His grave locates at Mausoleum drawer next to Marilyn Monroe which is in Westwood Memorial. He was 91 years at the time of his death. We remember him for his great works in Playboy magazine and his prestigious lifestyle at his Mansion.
